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Comment on The Distant Memory of a Very Bad Dream by kamo

kamo — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 07:24:13 +0000

very happy for you. and that last sentence is amazing… very true, though nothing i’d ever been able to pin down before. it’s not denial that the past was painful, it’s just a knowledge that it won’t happen again.

Comment on Party by urgh

urgh — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:46:46 +0000

My mother isn’t like that. She misjudges me periodically, underestimates me often, but doesn’t have a completely unrealistic view of who and what I am.

My father, on the other hand, has absolutely no fucking idea what I’m about. He has, for my entire life, been lost in his own grandiose ambitions and completely inappropriate ideas of who and what he thinks I am.

I’m 40. The old bastard is 71. It doesn’t end. Well, it will eventually, I suppose.

Comment on The Distant Memory of a Very Bad Dream by Ulysses

Ulysses — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:44:24 +0000

I love that possibility that love brings, that relationship that has the power to re-live the problems and the bad spots of the old relationship (might as well do it intentionally, ’cause it’ll happen anyway) and take the pain out of them, take the fear out of them.
I have to say, I love being on both sides of it. You should ask to help him record over one of those bad tapes, show him how you intend to make it safe for him too.

Comment on The Distant Memory of a Very Bad Dream by Holly

Holly — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:11:56 +0000

So very jealous… but very happy someone else has found something good. That feeling of looking back into the ugly past with someone who would never treat you that way… that’s so healing. When I started reading this blog, I never saw it going the way of a redemption lover but I’m really eating it up. :)

Comment on The Distant Memory of a Very Bad Dream by mer

mer — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:07:09 +0000

nice… very nice. and then there was hope for the rest of us.

Comment on The Distant Memory of a Very Bad Dream by Bad Mummy

Bad Mummy — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:37:45 +0000

That is what I had.

What you have now is what I want.

Comment on The Distant Memory of a Very Bad Dream by Beautiful Dreamer

Beautiful Dreamer — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:26:15 +0000

I’m glad you have someone amazing in your life now.

Comment on The Distant Memory of a Very Bad Dream by (lia)

(lia) — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:08:00 +0000

This is beautiful.

Comment on I Guess Someone Has to Monitor These Things by (lia)

(lia) — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:07:00 +0000

Oh dear… Buttsex on Taco Night is the funniest thing I’ve ever read.

But I totally empathize with your post. There’s something kind of fun about making food choices based on the promise of sex.

Comment on MP3 by god hates raiders fans

god hates raiders fans — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 03:58:03 +0000

oh and limewire is perfectly fine as long as you have a good antivirus package already installed. oh and set it to where you dont automatically share downloaded files