Question from a Reader: Anal Sex and Worry

The other day this email from someone I’ll call Beatrix arrived in my email. Will you help me answer it?

I have a fabulous, wonderful lover with whom I have been exploring new delights as well as being confronted by some faulty programming. Not to be too blunt but I’m having trouble with anal sex.

I never tried anal before but it’s great with this man. However, I’m really bothered by the sensation of the outward stroke because it feels so …

Jane, have a cookie

My boss, the inimitable Jane from Jane’s Guide , recently began tweeting. If you’d like a closer look at the ins and outs of running a porn-review website you really should follow her .

Welcome to Twitter, Jane. Have a cookie .

–( Jane’s Guide on Twitter ) …

A Penitent Villain

When you insult or offend someone, always admit it and apologize promptly, even if it wasn’t your intention or you had no idea. It is always better to be a penitent villain than to appear so socially inept as to not recognize when you’ve hurt the people around you. An evil genius is someone to bring to your side, a blundering fool is someone to keep as far away from you as possible.

via …

Please Forgive Me

… trying to finish up projects for a few clients. Monday will, no doubt, find me in a much more relaxed state as opposed to clinging to the ceiling by my toenails which is where I am right now.

2011 Sex Blogger Calendar

… out the rest of his fantastic gallery.

You’ve just flipped the January  page on your 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar, whispered a fond farewell to the lovely Mia Martina, and greeted the awesome Abiola Abrahms, who graces February’s page, and here I am about to talk to you about 2011.  If it seems early to you, you’re not alone; it seems early to me too.  But 2011 is going to be a bigger and better year, hopefully for all of us, and certainly for this amazing project that started as a …

Wednesday, Four Years Ago

Almost exactly four years ago Shay from The S-Spot instituted a feature called Cunt-blogging Wednesday. She linked to the very first edition in her post yesterday, and as I clicked idly through I came across something that looked so very familiar.

Hm. Wonder who that crazy blogger chick was ?

***Whoops, link was broken! Now it’s fixed! Thanks, alert readers!***

Sux

Him: What’s on your agenda for this evening?

Me: Work work work work work work work work work work work work.

Me: I have nothing written for tomorrow.

Me: I suck.

Him: No you don’t. Well, only in the best of ways.

Him: That should be your new tagline.

Me: What, “I suck”?

Him: “Sucks only in the best of ways.” …

It is Always a Tragedy

… grocery store posies. They look professionally arranged and far too big for your bedside table.

Except that it isn’t your bedside table. Now that you’ve cracked through the layer of sleep in your eyes you can see that it’s been replaced by something on an altogether different scale from the one that’s served you since college. Your bed feels somehow different too, and as you struggle upright to see what’s happened you notice that in this vast and soullessly clean white bed you’re …

I want to float too!

A Conversation Over Brunch

… cool is anal fisting.” I may have announced this just a smidge too loudly, as the man in the next booth over swiveled his head around in our direction. “They rub Crisco all the way up to their shoulders and when they’re in…” I mimed rotating my arm through a narrow passageway, “When they’re in, it’s like their whole arm has disappeared.”

It was his turn to put down his fork. “Don’t get any ideas, missy.”

“No it would be awesome. You can put a football in me and …

CineKinksters!

… Hot Movies for Her

Pink/White Productions

NCSF

Minivan Libertine

Lush Sex Stories

NippleCharms.com

For the Girls

The Darker Side of Lust

Shelly’s Toybox

Njoy Toys

Freddy and Eddy

…more to come!

Extreme! Fisting!