I transition from mother to lover so clumsily that unless I will myself to stand still for a moment, alone and naked (or in new sexytime attire purchased specifically for the occasion) I cannot even figure out where to put my hands. Minutes before they were packing lunches! And now they’re supposed to do what? And my mouth? Which just kissed my daughter goodnight? I’m meant to put it where? You can see the difficulty!
In this instance, however, I had not even enough time to put down my purse and keys; in fact I barely manged to rip off my glasses before he pushed me back on the stairs and slid down my throat. Worry about where to put my hands? There was no need! They dug into his ass to keep him from tumbling down the stairs, and before the time I’d normally have spent trying to get into character had passed my clit was thumping hard in time with his strokes into my mouth.
“I kind of attacked you the second you walked in the door,” he said afterward, curled behind me in the bed. “I hope that was ok,” and while I assured him that it most definitely was, I had to wonder for whom it would not be ok? Who wouldn’t like being the recipient of such extreme desire that it could not be put off long enough even for a purse to be set down or glasses to be removed?
Seriously, who wouldn’t like that?
It’s so nice not being repressed, isn’t it? Rejoice!
I need stairs, even though I live in a one floor house, I need stairs.
HA! Me too! Yet another great place to get your freak on!
You just cannot get a terrific angle for some forms of analingus or cunnilingus without stairs. ;)
Good question. IS there anyone who doesn’t want to be wanted? So awesome when it happens.
@Mr. AB… sometimes no stairs is good. Sprained foot and living in a split level house makes me wish for a one floor one. Wanna trade for a few weeks? ;-)
Well, there have been times when we didn’t make it up the stairs. It seems one doesn’t really have one’s sex life in mind when buying or renting a house. Stairs end up being there or not.
I can’t believe it’s been a couple of years since I last commented here. I’ve been lurking all this time. I don’t know why I’ve been silent. I’ve trimmed so many blogs but still read AAG. Don’t tell Josh Marshall that I read you before I read him.
my hubby isn’t much of a fan. When he gets home he’s sweaty and messy from a dirty job and he needs time to uncoil before any sexy time begins :)
I can only dream of being that wanted!
Yeah, I’d totally love that, sadly too few women will treat their guys to that…
mmmm being attacked as soon as the door closes.. YUM!! Before the little darlings have invaded our home; I would meet my love at the door totally naked loving the smell of his hard days work all over him.
Now with the kiddies, we have to be more controlled.. popping in a video and slinking off for a more controlled romp.
Not to throw cold water on the party, but someone who has been the victim of rape, incest or other unwanted assaults may react to this scenario with an anxiety attack, even if the lover was expected.
Very true. :(
So you’re saying that transition is best handled like jumping into cold water, or ripping off a band-aid? Just do it! Oh, in my wildest dreams…
(I was gonna say just suck it up, but you already did that…)
So long as I end up naked it’s all good.
Unfortunatly, I do know someone who woukdn’t like that… and i don’t understand how they could see it only as a annoyence, rather then as the strait up, overwhelming desire that it is. How could you not want to feel that wanted, that needed?
I am glad that others can experience it, and enjoy it so well. It is a wonderful fantasy to have, something everyone wishes to experience in their lives. Thoes who can make it a reality are truely blessed.
Seriously, who wouldn’t like that?
I wouldn’t. Especially if it was someone jamming a cock down my throat. Even though I’m a submissive in a d/s relationship, if my partner just straight up stuck his cock in my mouth as soon as I walked through the door, I would be hugely infuriated. It would make me feel like garbage, and like my needs, sexual or otherwise, didn’t matter at all to him.
And I’ve never been sexually assaulted.
I’ve never felt like that with this partner, but I can certainly see how that might be off-putting in a different situation.
The difference in situation is simply me. It’s nothing to do with my relationship (which is phenomenal) or my partner (who is unbelievably awesome).
Everyone wants different things sexually. No two people, even if they’re submissive women who like rough sex, are ever gonna want the same things. For instance, I want — I need — monogamy. My choice, but not for everyone.
There is a diffrence between “your needs don’t matter” and “I just can’t wait anymore!”. If you can only think of what YOU get out of it, then perhapse that life is not for you. Positive sex is about satisfying as much as bing satisfied, and actually finding the latter in the former. I think D/s work the same way.
I hope you aren’t addressing “that life is not for you” to me. Because that is really not okay.
People are allowed to not enjoy — to even hate — certain sexual things without being accused of being sexually selfish. We are also allowed to decide what we want out of relationships, d/s or otherwise. I don’t want to be jumped as soon as I get in the door by someone who shoves a cock down my throat. If someone does, and they get that, that’s great for them.
Everyone, submissive or not, is allowed to have limits without having their dedication to their partners called into question.
Positive sex is about consent.
There is a diffrence between “your needs don’t matter” and “I just can’t wait anymore!”. No, there isn’t.
Perhaps *what* life is not for you?
I am confused and worried by this statement, and I really would like Mark to explain.
Well, I’m gonna go right out and apologise. I took it out of context (in regards to who would want to *feel* that desire, not just the act in question.) combined with my own feelings about how thoes types of feelings affect my relationship (esp. yesterday, bad day >..<) I lashed out, and I was wrong. I am sorry, Elodie, and everyone.
What I had really meant was, that if in a trusting and undstanding relationship, the unexpected can be a big turn on. Of course, if there is not the level of trust and understanding, it would appear to be way over-the-top.
That, in all honesty, was what I meant in that statement. I apologise again. Desire for your partner should not be taken as a neglect of your own.
Thanks Mark. I really appreciate it!
I hope Elodie can forgive me as well. I truely did not mean what I had said about the situation.
Thanks for the apology, but I think you’re still missing something vital. There is a huge level of trust and understanding in my relationship with my partner. I still wouldn’t be turned on by what aag described, and would in fact dislike it intensely.
I also don’t want fire play, needle play, or non-monogamy. These are limits. I do want to get whipped hard, held down, called names, ordered around, and even “surprise” ravishment play (just not as soon as I walk through the door), but I would never imply that someone who does not want those things has a lower level of trust and understanding with her partner than I do.
I happen to like certain things. Other women like other certain things. Some women don’t like men sexually, some don’t like submitting, some don’t like rough sex at all. All of these things are totally legitimate, and don’t say anything about how much trust or understanding the woman has in her relationship/s.
AAG it sounds like a wonderfully trusting relationship, and I’m really glad you had fun. Also sound sexy as hell-o….what a way to be enjoyed.
I have monogamous wonderful man and we have done this many times. I love to take him on the floor and ride him just inside the door, waiting naked to satisfy myself. I like him to do same thing to surprise me. In the context of a relationship of many years standing. it is all consensual and we have long had a safe word for each other which deals with situations where one person isn’t happy or comfortable.
All of this sounds great for you, I just wish you hadn’t framed it in terms of “who wouldn’t like that?” Because personally, if this happened to me, I would probably feel overwhelmed and agitated, unless I happened to be in the exact right mood. You know?
I completely understand, and honestly, my tone did not come through the way I wanted it to in that last sentence.
I *know* not everyone would like that, and I didn’t mean to imply that they should.
Yeah, I’m pretty sure you know a 5 yr old boy wouldn’t like that, an asexual person wouldn’t like that, a person recovering in a burn unit wouldn’t like that, a nun wouldn’t like that, etc. But you were writing in the moment and full of the joy and wanted others to feel the passion, too. It flowed. Poetic license. I get it. :)
Let me just say, I ENVY you. The husband jumping you thing, not the having to be a wife and mom at the same time thing. lol I would love my hubby to jump me like that!
We’re *not* married. :)
then you should ;)
I can’t imagine ever being married again.
For the record, I sent a link to this blog to my lover, noting that I would indeed love this. He had every intention of honoring my request and I was eagerly anticipating a moment of stair lust. When I walked in the door, laden with grocery bags for dinner, he misinterpreted that as too distracted for lust. Later, when he lazily inquired, I corrected his misperception. I am NEVER too distracted to be taken. Never.
Of course, I trust this man as I’ve never trusted before.
Sexy… when it builds up all day, and you can’t help but visualize your lover naked while you’re talking to your co-worker… when all you can think about is being surprised by your lover at the front door, knowing that he/she can’t wait any longer, seeing her nipples erect through her shirt or his stiff cock through his pants…
My girlfriend. Sadly.
– PB