Jul 142010
I think porn is important in what it has the ability to teach about sex. While many people argue that pornography poisons our understandings of sex and kills marriages, I argue that porn has just as much of a capacity to show that sex can be empowering, beautiful, healthy and positive.
“Ability” and “capacity”–yes. Is this how porn functions in present-day culture? I don’t believe so. I say this as someone without much of an ideological opposition to porn–just a general distaste for much of the stuff I see.
“The answer to bad porn is not no porn. It’s better porn!”
–Annie Sprinkle
I’ve seen a study cited somewhere that said that the incidence of rape has steadily fallen while the consumption of pornography has risen. So there’s that, also. If I can find a link to it, I’ll pass it along.
I’m pretty sure I watch more porn than my boyfriend of 5 years does. LOL
How are people going to learn to have sex if they can’t watch others do it? We don’t let people become doctors by walking in an OR and picking up a scalpel.
I like porn
but…is not that creative. Most of the time is:
1 – suck cock
1a – lick labia (sometimes)
2 – vagin
3 – anal
4 – cum in mouth
what kind of script is that? is this the model people should have?
I’m not against sex in movies. What I don’t like is movies in sex.
(great blog by the way)
This is not the script for queer porn, you know. Expand your horizons. Watch some. :)
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