Comments on: And Make It Last http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/ ~ videamus quid sit exilium. nempe loci commutatio.~ Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:55:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: aag http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21170 aag Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:50:46 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21170 At least a year? :) At least a year? :)

]]> By: sxychikadee http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21169 sxychikadee Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:36:31 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21169 That is good news, although I understand the sadness. I am (hopefully) headed to the same place with the father of my children. (And for the record I have NO DESIRE to have sex with him at ALL!) Just wondering, if you don't mind sharing, how long it took you (plural) to get to this place. Maybe in terms of how long it took once the fighting stopped? I know everyone is different, but this post inspires me - on a day when my ex gave me a substantial sum of non-legally-obligated money because I "work hard and deserve it and (he) was an asshole to (me) for 10 years." That is good news, although I understand the sadness.

I am (hopefully) headed to the same place with the father of my children. (And for the record I have NO DESIRE to have sex with him at ALL!)

Just wondering, if you don’t mind sharing, how long it took you (plural) to get to this place. Maybe in terms of how long it took once the fighting stopped? I know everyone is different, but this post inspires me – on a day when my ex gave me a substantial sum of non-legally-obligated money because I “work hard and deserve it and (he) was an asshole to (me) for 10 years.”

]]> By: Margaret http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21146 Margaret Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:31:43 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21146 It is awesome that you are able to have this kind of relationship with him. There are so many (myself included) that cannot do this for various reasons. peace... It is awesome that you are able to have this kind of relationship with him. There are so many (myself included) that cannot do this for various reasons.

peace…

]]> By: Rodrigo http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21145 Rodrigo Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:22:16 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21145 Listening to that very song now. Synchrony Listening to that very song now. Synchrony

]]> By: nitebyrd http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21143 nitebyrd Thu, 10 Dec 2009 14:46:00 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21143 Better to be apart and happy then together and miserable. Whatever works is right. Better to be apart and happy then together and miserable. Whatever works is right.

]]> By: aag http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21141 aag Thu, 10 Dec 2009 13:39:55 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21141 Oh no. No thank you. :) Oh no. No thank you. :)

]]> By: aab http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21140 aab Thu, 10 Dec 2009 09:06:16 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21140 >>How amazing and yet how frustrating it is that the only way we can make it last — is apart. Yes - this happens. The rare experiences that we share with our ex's. Sometimes I drive off thanking that I am no longer with her. Other times, not so much so. We have succumbed occasionally to the sexual attractions that brought us together initially. If you haven't bedded your ex yet, and you think you can w/o complicating the situation - you need to defiantly try. For awhile, me and ex succumbed. It was awesome sex. >>How amazing and yet how frustrating it is that the only way we can make it last — is apart.

Yes – this happens. The rare experiences that we share with our ex’s. Sometimes I drive off thanking that I am no longer with her. Other times, not so much so. We have succumbed occasionally to the sexual attractions that brought us together initially. If you haven’t bedded your ex yet, and you think you can w/o complicating the situation – you need to defiantly try. For awhile, me and ex succumbed. It was awesome sex.

]]> By: randy http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21139 randy Thu, 10 Dec 2009 05:44:42 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21139 I recognized those lyrics right away (not usual for me), one of my fave songs. I recognized those lyrics right away (not usual for me), one of my fave songs.

]]> By: ThatToyChick http://aagblog.com/2009/12/10/and-make-it-last/comment-page-1/#comment-21138 ThatToyChick Thu, 10 Dec 2009 05:29:57 +0000 http://aagblog.com/?p=6998#comment-21138 Aw, honey. Hope your heartstrings are feeling better by the time this finds you. -TTC Aw, honey.

Hope your heartstrings are feeling better by the time this finds you.

-TTC

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