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Hehe. So true. :)

Actions speak louder than words–so it is told. ;)

hmm mmm. I loved the “Daddy” line by the way :-)

Dave

So, did he put your lying mouth to better use? ;)

Why yes, I think my mouth was pretty useful that night. :)

Ms. I. beat me to it. Actions DO speak louder than words. Or so they say.

*gurgle*

in bed. alone. reading… my legs are my betrayers too :D

I had to comment. This is so perfect. I absolutely love it. It’s what I am to have in my relationship with Chee. Right now, it’s me saying all of these lovely things, in the hopes that one day it’ll click and he’ll say them on his own.

One day….

I didn’t know you had a Daddy! ;)

I do have a Daddy. :)

Can you tell us more about your Daddy? As my name implies, I have a Daddy, but along with saying that during sex, I actually have rules and structure and delicious punishment. I’m curious of the boundaries you have with your Daddy?

:D

So right. So real. So hot.

Thank you.

My legs tend to be more truthful than the rest of me too.

i’m not privy to the complexities of your interactions with this gentleman and the written word never completely expresses the feel of the situation, but i’m personally not ok with what you described.

in order to have the urgent no’s taken seriously, we also have to have the friendly no’s taken seriously as well.

In any case where the “no” is not defined beforehand, it’s crucial that it be interpreted at “no.”

However, the gentleman in question and I have been playing these lil games for darn near 18 months now. We’re clear on what constitutes a firm “no.” We have other ways of getting across the concept of “no.”

Surely you are aware of the concept of the safe word?

:)

Hm. This doesn’t even seem like a place for a safe word. I mean, you could have said no and closed your legs or sat back up. “Daddy, no” and opening your legs seems like a pretty clear “yes” to me- even if you didn’t have the history.

I thought it was hot.

90% of communication is non-verbal right? :P

I’m working on writing my first novel: right before my main character’s about to get spanked for the first time in her life, the guy asks her if she wants a safeword. It turns out to be “snowflake.”

I thought was you wrote was deliciously hot. I’m going to marinate over what you wrote now…

I’m with you (with the understanding that it’s a “too many orgasms, my lady parts are sensitive/tired!” no and not a “get the hell away from me!” no), up to the “Daddy” part.

Something about calling a lover “daddy” makes my skin crawl. Still, this was rather hot.

I agree that no means no…

but,
“No no no no no no no, Oh my God no….” Means: “If you stop now, I’ll break your neck!”

I say that as soon as you throw a “Daddy” with the word “no”, it needs to be taken at face value. I’ve never seen anyone say “NO”… and add “daddy” to a serious concept of the No.

So a “no daddy” means “yeh DADDY”.

-Ana