7th Oct, 2008

Spoon

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We rested briefly in the spoon position, his still-hard cock pressing against my bottom.  Our rests never last long.  Before we’d caught our collective breath we were again grinding against each other.

“Where do you want this, baby?” he growled in my ear.

“Anywhere you’d like to put it,” I answered, and I meant it.  He’d been everywhere already that morning; I was certain that sufficient lube (and relaxation) remained that we’d have no problem if he chose … er … door number two.

He did, or at least he attempted to, but the gates had slammed shut.  For the first time in my sixteen-plus-month relationship with that particular sex act, I understood why some complain about discomfort.

Discomfort, fuck.  It hurt.  It hurt a lot.  It hurt enough that apparently I yelled “Get it out,” repeatedly, and with a cadence reminiscent of the William Tell Overture (if he’d told me that then I probably would have elbowed him; over bacon and eggs a few hours later I’d regained my sense of humor).

God love him, he didn’t rip his cock out of me.  Instead he very gradually eased back, reasoning that if sudden entry caused such pain, so would too-rapid exit.  I gasped and moaned into the pillow while he did his best to comfort me.  Eventually things settled down enough that after a quick clean-up, we were back in business.

In door number one, this time.

Was it the position, perhaps, that caught me off guard?  We almost exclusively use the old stand-by doggie-style for buttsex, so maybe the angle made me clench up?  In any case, I have now have a greater appreciation for those who worry about the pain of anal lurve.  Next time, we’ll go a little more slowly.

And I’ll try to keep the refrain of “Get it out get it out get it outOutOUT!” from playing through my head at every stroke.

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One of my posts was selected for the Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy #10.  Go check it out at XXBN.  Thank you Gracie for the linkey-love.

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Guess who was quoted in XBiz Premiere?  Me!  Click the link, wait for the page to load, then use the sliding bar across the bottom to go to page 42.  Click to embiggen.  Squee with delight.  I know I did.  Thank you to reader Christina for letting me know.

Responses

I am one of those people who’ve never been able to enjoy anal anything. Even my ryder plug is too much for me. Lubricant, relaxation. Nope. I just don’t think it’s my “thing”.
Sorry for your discomfort. But congrats on being posted on those sites. You’re writing definitely deserves recognition.

If you want a hard copy of XBiz Premiere, I have one and I am willing to mail it to you.

Srsly? You’d sign it for me too?

*fangirl squee*

:)

you mentioned this quite a few entries ago but: could you pretty please find it in your heart to write a review of the esse/the romps you’ve had with its aid soon? i’m considering getting one and would love to hear your input =)

*snort* And now it’ll be in *my* head all night. :)

But without context!

I love anal. Love. LOVE. But I’ve found that it’s impossibly painful for me if we try any position other than doggie-style when first engaging. But after about 5 minutes, once I’m sufficiently relaxed and stretched, we can move into any (and every!) other position without problem.

Thank you. I’ll never be able to watch the Lone Ranger again without thinking about buttsex.

My work here is done. :) –aag

I don’t want anyone to be in pain, but I’m glad that someone who is experienced finally gets that it can be really painful! We’re slowly moving our way there - we’ve gotten a finger in. It’s taken three months, but it’s more than we’ve done successfully ever!

Huh - I’m kinda surprised. Doggy-style anal is the most painful for me… it takes quite awhile before I can move into that position. I usually have to start on top of him so I can control the amount/rate of penetration to begin with. Each to her own, I guess! It’s just not something I have the opportunity to discuss with most of my friends so it’s interesting to hear other women’s experiences.

Oh ouch, that doesn’t sound pleasant at all! I’m glad he took it easy on pulling out, though, too….just in case.

Well at least there are plenty of us out here ready and willing to apply some tlc to the affected area :-)

Sounds like a muscle spasm. I know you guys are pretty skilled but just a few seconds more before entry might have made all the difference

Wow, you’ve earwormed me for LIFE! And I’m also laughing so hard that both my girlfriend and the cat are shooting me worried looks.

I can guarantee I’ll be humming that song for at least a week.

Earwormed for LIFE! That rocks!

Yes, really! I can’t believe you want me to sign it. You’re the famous person in the magazine. Not me.

Yes, but you’re the famous person who OWNS the magazine.

:)

Angle more important than position. Most definitely! Also, hi, not sure I’ve actually commented before :D

Positions make a huge difference. I loove anal from behind. Trying to do it all missionary-style, apparently, does not hurt but hits some weird nerve that makes me feel suddenly unsafe and freak out.

I think it comes down to the fact that, in different positions and different angles, there’s a vast difference in how he’s entering you, so that can occasionally cause unexpected discomfort.

With “LOVE”, I love anal with my wife. I love the way she pleases me as well. Anal sex is only pleasurable when I am in love. Love provides unrestricted sex. :)

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