20th Jun, 2008

The Clothes Make the Boy

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We’re lucky enough to be hooked into a network of friends who are heavy shoppers and relatively easy on clothes, so most of my children’s attire passes down through them.

This is such a blessing.

Inevitably, there are gaps and lags in the available clothing to the point that even I must occasionally indulge in a new outfit.  If it’s from Wal-Mart.  And on the clearance rack.

And the next size up.  I’m religious about buying clothes too large for my kids, on the theory that if it’s big this June, it will still fit next June.  Usually this works.

So when the boy’s short started rolling down below his toddler belly and my upstream supplier showed no signs of passing on the goods, I kept a sharp eye out for bargains.

What I eventually found was a pair of plaid shorts with a polo shirt in a shade of blue I knew would match his eyes.  The shorts had purple (purple!) in the plaid, which possibly accounted for them being on the clearance rack.

A boy wearing purple?  Is that done?

He’s at the stage where he must do everything himself, so after washing this find, I laid it out one morning for him to discover.  He babbled with excitement at finding something new to wear, not to mention the challenge of a snap, zomg a snap!

With only a modicum of drama, he stuffed himself into the outfit.  He donned his sister’s dress-up heels and held one of my old purses.  On his head he wore a white plastic container.  As a hat.  He stood before me in this new get-up and beamed with pride.

In his sweet face I could see the past.  His face is a miniature of his father’s, minus the tight lines of age and without the overlay of ashamed deceit.  I hope he never acquires that overlay.

I could also see the future.  He’ll wear something similar on his first day of kindergarten, I’m sure, and his face will glow with innocent pride then too.

Maybe by kindergarten though he’ll have left behind the dress-up shoes and purse, and he won’t run away shrieking when I tell him his pants are on backwards.

Responses

Adorable! And I get what you say about them growing like weeds. I work with K5-4th graders, and today a poor mother hustled her son in and he was wearing pants at least 4 inches too short. She was incredibly embarrassed, so I hiked my pants up to make them feel better.

But I would wear purple plaid shorts any day.

Purple is fine for boys. My eldest once owned a fluffy bright orange sweater from the ‘girls side’ of Target. He also rocked purple and many other colors that were allegedly girly. We didn’t care - we were tired of everything he wore having a truck on it or some sneaker brand.

FWIW my youngest (a boy) likes to wear tights and recently went to visit his brother at school in a dress from our costume box. He thinks of himself as a princess. Who am I to argue?

Thank goodness the school is fairly liberal…. :P

My oldest son LOVED the color purple when he was about 4 or 5. It was cool.

My youngest son - his favorite thing to dress up in is his older sister’s Princess dress. I have adorable pictures of him dressed as Cinderella, his face covered in dirty smudges and his knees skinned and bruised. He looks like Cinderella after she took a wrong turn and ended up in the ghetto :)

i hope you took pictures of such cuteness… :)

peace…

That boy has STYLE!

In his sweet face I could see the past. His face is a miniature of his father’s, minus the tight lines of age and without the overlay of ashamed deceit.

When I come across lines such as this in a short story or memoir, I read them again and again until I know them by heart.

master craftsman = aag

Kids can be so dang cute at that age! I sometimes miss that age from our own three, currently in their tweens.

*sigh*

I believe everyone needs a purse of some sort, or 2 even….and his gaining appreciation for the shoes women wear can only be a good thing later in life.

My son loves purple too.

I met my future wife wearing a black velvet tux, with a french ruffled shirt the color of your flowers up top…maybe a little deeper…That was 28 years ago,,, but it Sure etched me into Her MIND!!!!

-tears- That’s so cute!

My in-laws have a tendency of buying my son some girly-looking clothes. It’s fine and dandy if he wears orange and purple but on a bib overall? With a matching hat? AND a backpack? Thank you very much but I don’t think my son will appreciate the atomic wedgies when he goes to school.

I like the kid’s style, let me tell you. Purple is a great color for guys (and royal too!)

Such a sweet story :-)

and i say again

your kids are lucky to have you

Adorable and oh so cute! It is such accounts of life and children like these that make me certain I want someday to be someone’s mum :)

Thanks for sharing aag.

LOL…not only funny, poigniant, but beautifully written! And I can completely relate. My own little guy loves the colors pink and purple just like his older sister, he loves to wear my shoes, and he will most certainly become the best cook of our family. I am so glad we live in an age where we can help our boys embrace a more complete sense of themselves!

As a newcomer to this site, I also just want to say thank you AAG! You and your blog are a shining example of how a woman can be an adoring mother, and also an unabashed sexual being as well. The superb writing makes it a perfect trifecta! Thanks again!

Purple sounds fine on a boy - boys are reclaiming colours these days. Haven’t you seen the teenage and college-age boys wearing the pink polo shirts? I’m SO happy that society is letting up it’s tight reins (even just a tiny bit) on what boys are allowed to wear, think, and feel.

Also, my niece is at the “me do it” stage too. It is hilarious seeing her proudly use her potty in front of all of us while we’re sitting outside and then flip out when her mom tries to advise her on which leg should go in which pant hole as she re-dresses herself.

My husband is a huge Vikings fan. So, to him, purple is a boy’s color. Why the hell not, I say.

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