AlwaysArousedGirl

Personally I don’t have a thing for girls having sex with me in high heels. Sounds kinda weird. Wouldn’t they get in the way? I mean a leg coming the wrong way, at the wrong time, might make me uh…unable to perform.

Okay, so consider: you’re wearing high heels, probably a summer skirt. You’ve been walking with him all through the yet-unfinished-office-building-turned-temporary-art-exhibition-space. You decide to see what’s on the second floor, but there is nothing just the walls of the stair shafts, some columns, the exterior glass curtain. The band from downstairs is audible through the floor that vibrates slightly. You decide it’s a perfect time, take hold of the edges of a column, and,… kick your heels off?

I love that you said “hi” to the ‘rents. Such a thoughtful daughters in flats.

you would loook Hawt ,in heels baby…….

Well, all things require a degree of working up to…

You know, starting with socks-on during sex (kinky!) and moving to some comfy slippers. Then on to ballet flats and Converse All-Stars. ;)

Socks on during sex????? Nooooo! Even that idea makes my feet feel all claustrophobic! –aag

My guess is that you’re worrying too much. I can’t recall *ever* knowing a single male friend who was into shoes. I think that probably anyone who thinks shoes are that important is probably a fetishist to some degree, and wouldn’t be willing to hide that fact from you for long enough to blindside you with it.

Not all high heels are uncomfortable. I love high heels, but I wouldn’t buy a pair that felt uncomfortable, because its just not worth it!

Confession: I have a pair of 5″ heels in the drawer next to my bed for easy access. He promised I’d never have to walk in them if I would just put them on for sex once in a while. He doesn’t even have to be able to see them - just a little digging in to his back once in a while with the cold patent leather sends him flying. I don’t mind much, but the fuckers definately come off before I go to the bathroom!

Dee

I see where you’re going with this. Of course guys love the heels. Makes your legs look longer and then there’s the whole fetish hob-wash. However, I would think au natural would be better. Nails, physical strength….

I feel like that’s where it’s at.

You can just put them on FOR the sex… no need to wear them before or after. The heels make for good handles for him to hold your legs up & spread when you’re on your back, for example!

In my book, high heels are good for photos or for during sex if the guy is into that. My hubby isn’t, but I know many who are!

But no need to wear them unless you want to.

And hi to AAG’s mom & dad too! :P

Do you have any idea what a thrill it was to read
“I’d even be happy — nay thrilled — to be with a man who was wearing high heels, especially if he coordinated them with a cute pair of panties,”
You & my Goddess should compare notes.
Cheers,
sss

Apparently I first saw “Rocky Horror Picture Show” at an impressionable age… :) –aag

“And then I realized…I’ve found a limit!”

There’s always a first time, isn’t there? What’s next — dating?

I only wear shoes that are comfy and I can walk in, or else i wear something else, and change into something pretty/hot when I know that all I have to do is sit.

I don’t think I’d be able to wear them during sex, because I’d prob. puncture a hole in the sheets or mattress or something. I’m very…um…active :)

this past valentines day i went to the smutty little sex shop in town to pick up a smutty little something to wear for my smutty man. i made sure to take a little too long getting ready for bedtime to insure that he’d be good and under the covers by the time i waltzed into the bedroom with my new gear. as i looked at myself in the mirror i thought “something’s missing”, so i tip-toed down to the hall closet and grabbed a pair of heels. snaking my way into the bedroom, smutty man sits up in bed and asks, “where the hell are you going?” “down on you,” i say. “but you’re wearing shoes,” he exclaims, “i figured you were leaving”. oy.

If you ONLY wear flats, that’s your choice.

If it’s a fear and you’d actually like to work on it, it’s pretty easy. I went from owning (and not wearing!) 15 pairs of heels (including the 4″ spikes I still haven’t heels about 1/2 the time. Start with low and wedgie. Maybe a nice espadrille for summer. See how you like it. Move on from there.

I don’t have a problem with a woman not wearing hi heals during sex. I’m not sure i’ve even noticed her feet. I just wanna make sure I’m having sex..lol

Haha! I love it! High heels as a hard limit.

I’ve actually been planning on doing a post about the SuicideGirls website and how some of the pin-up porn trends there bug me. Granted, the site is geared less and less towards lesbian and bisexual women as time goes on, and I suppose some men have a heels fetish, but my first thought is OW. I’m your typical, sensible-shoe-wearing dyke, and I like women’s feet - but I like to see them *free*. There’s just something ridiculous, too, about the naked woman in the stilettos. Maybe my turn-on wires got crossed somehow? Who knows.

My partner is the one who likes to wear heels before and during sex, although they do usually come off somewhere in the process. When she walks into the room in her black patent leather fuck-me shoes, I know I’m in for a good time. As far as my attitude? Two words: toe cleavage.

i have no interest in poking holes in my sheets with my shoes

that said, i do wear the five inch boots with the pvc catsuit but well… don’t you have to?

i love high heeled hush puppy sandals… love them. nice wedge and a cushy sole that’s only about two inches high

flats rock the planet but if you actually like a bit of a heel those are awesome!

Others have already covered the “definitely not for walking in” angle, and I too am glad that you have decided to include your parents in your blog!

I think that the sexy strappy heels make for great eye candy, but I am one who loves complete nudity during sex. I am happiest when I can get my partners to remove all of their jewelry!

Fucking in heels sounds clunkety and difficult. Fucking with socks, on the other hand, is really hot. I love nice high socks on a tan guy….

Be kind to your little piggies.

Isn’t the whole “high heel” thing a porn-industry driven thing?
I’ve never been into the whole high-heel thing… I even asked my current gf about the abundance of high heels in porn, and it was her who told me guys find it sexy.

Don’t get me wrong, I find high heels sexy with the right outfit, but not during sex… And definitely no socks!!

I’m surprised - no one has mentioned chunky heeled sexy sandals. I’d never attempt sex lying down in them, but they make me just the right height for standing sex. I LOVE my heels because despite being 4″ they are quite comfy. They don’t squish or pinch any part of my footsies. The key for me is that the heels are substantial & allow me to not lose my balance. They are a sort of compromise between the heels that my husband loves (it’s all about the tight calves) and the comfort that I require.

Oh and the other thing is that my partner likes sex standing up with penetration from the rear. I am taller than she so the heals make it more comfortable for me and she loves the angle.

i love heels, and have several pair that i wear on various occasions…however, i dont do footwear while having sex…i tend to push off people and things while in the act, and i just dont see that as being ok while wearing shoes…

peace…

I hate high heels. I guess I could wear them if I am laying down though. If you think it’s sexy for me to walk around in them, well, sorry about that. It’s aint gonna happen!!

this doesnt have anything to do with heels but i cant share this with anyone else.
my bf and i started experimenting with butt sex last night and this morning. he fingered my arsehole for ages and i loved it!!!
we are definitely going to do it again. I wouldnt have been comfortable with it unless i had been reading your blog. ive been reading for years.
much love!
T xoxo

I love women in heels, makes the line of the leg, sooo yummy.

I think it must be a fetish thing for me, I thanked my lucky stars when boots became fashionable. My wife bought some Fuck me Boots for me. She doesnt wear them often, but if they are on, a good time is ahead.

You dont have to wear them to bed, even the taking off is a turn on….go with it.

Nail polish is my hard limit! :-)

A while ago I promised myself I would stop wearing grossly uncomfortable shoes (or clothes really) just to be sexy. But since I *do* like the occasional pair of heels, I have had to find alternatives.

I stopped buying crappy shoes.

I realized that even the flats I owned were pinchy and yucky. But being a college student (and then very low income worker) means that I can’t buy the really nice shoes so easily. I found a few brands that make very cute dress shoes (some with a little heel) that seem to send their last years stock to discount stores (Ross, Marshalls, TJ Max, Thrift Stores). Bjorn makes very comfy flats, it’s like wearing no shoes at all. Rockports have been great, I can get those on sale for under 50. I have a couple pair of Nina heels (which are HOT and have more padding than most other heels, and are made with a female foot form, so they actually fit.) Also, never underestimate the power of a little wedge or kitten heel; very comfortable, very sexy! Later, I realized that since I was wearing these almost pricey shoes almost daily for several years, they were actually cheaper than my old crummy shoes, so now I feel justified for spending 25$.

And if I ever get rich, I will totally buy a pair of beautifeels. Which feel like wearing big poofy slippers rather than heels.

Ah. Well, I have fucked in heels, but it really is awkward, frankly. Imagine, for example, being on top, your legs bent under you, and under him, to help push him into you… and your heels are digging into his ass. Not a pretty picture. Or in other positions, your feet swinging around in the air. Dangerous.

I like heels, I don’t mind fucking in heels, and I can always ditch them if they obtrude in some way. I have a couple of friends with minor foot and shoe fetishes, and their appreciation is always so heartfelt that it makes me all happy in the pants.

When we met, the girl half of us wore heels semi-regularly. This was very sexy to the boy half (who at the time didnt actually comprehend that he liked both her in the shoes and the shoes themselves) About a year ago when the boy 1/2 had an ephiphany about his crossdressing urges, he bought his very first pair of heels. Clear 6″ stripper heels (slides technically).
To keep things even in the shoe closet he bought a couple of pairs for the genetically girly 1/2. She at some point re-learned liking such shoes, and now we happily share dozens of pairs.

You didn’t mention if you would be willing to be fucked by a heel, if you weren’t required to wear it. I think somewhere on our blog is an exempler of just such an activity.

Heels are actually more comfortable than you might fear as long as you keep ‘em pointed at the ceiling, don’t pinch so much then!

i dont really understand the purpose of a girl keeping heels on….i would hope that the guy would be interested in other things going on rather than the shoes i was wearing….