26th Feb, 2008

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Late last night my soon-to-be ex-husband visited me in a dream. A sex dream.

We were stuck together in some huge old house, apparently because of impassable roads. Our children were there, as well as all six of his new partner’s children. We worked together to get this assemblage bedded down for the night, then wearily headed toward the only remaining available bed.

Without any discussion at all we collapsed into it together, too exhausted from the weather, altered plans and childcare to bother with social niceties. Promptly we both fell asleep.

But before long we were awoken by the whimpers of a restless child. We stared at each other, willing the little one back to sleep. When after a moment the murmurs quieted, my soon-to-be ex-husband pushed me gently onto my stomach and slid off my nightgown.

I raised my hips so the fabric could slip free, and once I was naked I realized that he was too. He crawled between my legs, rubbing his erection over my bottom as I ground my pubis into the bed below him. In an second he’d slipped inside of me. He circled his arm around my hip so as to reach my clit with his fingers. He whispered filthy words in my ear.

None of this was even remotely like anything that had happened between us during marriage. None of it. There had been no nightgown slipping, no naked bottom rubbing, no pubis grinding, no hip circling, no clit rubbing (well, maybe there’d been a little clit rubbing, but it certainly wasn’t like this clit rubbing), no filthy word whispering. “This is so good,” I moaned to him between coming and more coming.

“Just be quiet and enjoy it,” he muttered. This was more like the man I knew.

As often happens when I’m caught in a sex dream, I woke up right before I came. Sweaty, horny and cranky, I rolled over and tried to get back to sleep, wondering what had brought on the dream. A too-late dinner? The unexpected phone call from him to settle some childcare-related confusion right before bedtime? The fact that I’d added my signature to his at the bottom of several pages that very day at my lawyer’s office?

It didn’t much matter what brought on the dream.

But when he called again in the morning to finalize our little childcare-related conundrum, I offered, “Why don’t you just stay here for dinner tonight? That would be easier than trying to haul hungry, tired children clear across town and then fixing them dinner.”

And I was pleased when he agreed.

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Uh, oh snap?

A’s last blog post..New Pictures

does he really have a new partner with six children? now that’s a blog all its own!

nenasadije’s last blog post..he’s gone. and i feel it again. that nag. that need.
less than 24 hours ago we were in the…

Wow, that’s … hot. I mean, I’m sure you didn’t actually have sex with him after dinner (did you?); but how very real, that sexual ambivalence that’s tied to the end of a relationship. I really liked this post for the pleasurable dissonance of emotions it evoked.

Marcelle Manhattan’s last blog post..I Fucked a Co-Worker

I love random sex dreams and the strangely intimate feeling with the subject afterward. I’ve had them about co-workers, bosses, and folks with whom I’d never. The dreams make me look at them in a different light altogether.

distracted’s last blog post..Privilege

Where’s Freud when you need him?

Careful, careful….

Be careful with him — but you’re a big girl, so you really don’t need my advice.

Isn’t it interesting that you’re the one primarily interested in the divorce, but enjoy the sex dreams with him? Yes, I think that’s terribly interesting …

Hi AAG,

Nothing like a good, old-fashioned dinner with STB-Ex to bring you bracingly back to reality!

XO

Chuck

Oh, you betcha!

i think this is really healthy actually…

you’re such a sexual being that for me this feels like some kind of forgiveness or peacemaking in your own heart.

and i love that you keep family dinners, that’s so awesome for the kiddos…

badinfluencegirl’s last blog post..rumble

I’ve had sex dreams about my ex - but they usually end with my current husband beating the crap out of the ex which, in it’s own way, is extremely satisfying!

Randi’s last blog post..An Actual Conversation

One last Hurrah?

The closer you and your soon-to-be ex-husband can be socially now and over the coming years, the better it is for all concerned.

Just don’t let it encourage the kiddos’ fantasies of the two of you reconciling. But you knew that.

(While my wife and I do a fair amount socially with my ex and our two kids and our grandchildren, our children — adult now — could never figure out how their parents were ever together in the first place.)

I don’t at all dream about my sex with my ex-husband. His cock smelled bad. ickkkkky.

Bad Bad Girl’s last blog post..fuckmyfuckingpussy…

I want to coin a new term - post-marital friendship. After all, some of us were lucky enough to be friends before we married, why not after? OK, perhaps not the most original concept ever, but I for one enjoy the hell out of it.

verticaldancer’s last blog post..More about Piercings

For some reason, I’ve had dreams almost every night about my ex. Mostly sexy dreams, but even the ones that aren’t sex dreams are pleasant….. Shhhheeeezz.

Naughty Endevours’s last blog post..TMI Tuesday #125

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