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4th Jan, 2008

My Mojo, Has You Seen It?

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Each problem that I solved became a rule which
served afterwards to solve other problems.
- Rene Descartes

It’s been missing for a month or so now.

Oh don’t worry, my sex drive is still in fine shape. The little cache of toys I’ve amassed over the months has been worked out (and in, and out, and in again) many times over since my mojo went AWOL. It’s only my desire for sex with other people that seems to have gotten lost somewhere along the way.

I had a lil pegging date the other night, a pegging date that ended up canceled in part because of an ill child, but mostly because I just didn’t have the heart for it.

Single bi- girls get oodles and scads of attention, not only from men but also from couples eager to live out the fantasy of bringing another woman into the bedroom for their husband’s (and their) amusement.

I’ve gotten quite a number of requests for this sort of thing, both from people I know and from perfect strangers. Eventually I removed any reference to couples from my dating-site profile so as to avoid at least some of these requests. I just don’t have the heart to be a very good plaything right now.

I’m not sure I ever was a very good plaything.

All corners have counseled me to get back on the fucking horse and ride off into the sunset (or at least ride ’til it’s broken and exhausted), but right now that doesn’t sound very appealing.

What does sound appealing is quiet, and my little family, and work. Staying at home and working sounds much better to me most nights than does gettin’ nekkid and rubbing my bits against someone else’s pieces.

I suppose it’s not surprising that I need a short break from nakedity. I was just about as naked as I could possibly have been in my last little foray into dating, and that didn’t end so well.

Some of that was out of my control, but the rest? Clearly some of my actions and attitudes need to be examined if I don’t want to make the same mistakes again. And I most certainly don’t.

A man sent me a really nice note the other day, and attached to it were multiple pictures, none of which were of his junk! How cool is that? There were no junk pictures, and no car pictures; for anyone to send multiple pictures of things other than dicks or wheels is quite an accomplishment indeed.

Instead he sent images of his face, his torso and his hands. In the picture of his hands he was holding an 18v drill-driver. Whoa. Strong male hands holding a power tool. There’s not much hotter.

My mojo peeked around the corner, but before I could hit “respond” to this potentially interesting man’s message, it had scampered capriciously off.

Soon enough it will be back, I’m sure.

Posted by: aag

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Responses

I recommend leaving a trail of Reeses’ Pieces to lure your mojo out. It worked for ET…

By: Rupert on January 4th, 2008
at 12:31 am

Happens to the best of us. I remember when it happened to Jefferson last year.

It’ll be back soon. It’s just on holiday break.

hugs, dear.

By: Viviane on January 4th, 2008
at 12:38 am

What? You only get photos of cars and cocks. I get photos of those, oh yes, but also of dead animals. Nothing says I’m a big macho man than standing with a rifle in one hand and a foot perched on top of a dead deer. You think I’m kidding, don’t you? I only wish I were.

By: Tess on January 4th, 2008
at 12:39 am

right there with you aag…

but i know from experience, it will be back..

By: bellacara on January 4th, 2008
at 12:40 am

Note to self: Now that the 5th and 6th women ever have seen your cock this last week, don’t get carried away sending out the cock pics.

Wait, that might not be true. with 7500 visitors in 6 weeks, Im thinking more people on average looked up the pussy pics over the lone cock pic, but there is the one. Hmm, I think maybe at least 20 women and say 1/2 dozen gay men have seen it.

Still, shelve the cock pics, the junkyard of a backyard full of cars pics, the pics of your junk in the junkyard, and all pics involving dead animals…check

The Geek

By: The Fellatio Artist & The Geek on January 4th, 2008
at 3:08 am

Yeh, it’ll be back - you’re just having a little rest, until that….. little something…. awakens in you again and you perkily gather it up and use it with wild abandon!

By: Jackie Adshead on January 4th, 2008
at 8:08 am

The pictures the guy sent are so impressive which means he is extra impressive. How ever did he KNOW and understand what reaches a woman? There was one special guy.

By: Rosie on January 4th, 2008
at 8:52 am

he sounds nice…. why not write him back and tell him you’re dealing with some crap and you’ll get back to him in a few weeks?

not that i ever do that when i tell myself too either…

that mojo thing is a tough one… sounds like you need some down time and some healing time… but i’m thinking you knew that too

By: badinfluencegirl on January 4th, 2008
at 8:59 am

There’s nothing wrong with a little “me” time. Your mojo is just healing itself.

By: nitebyrd on January 4th, 2008
at 9:47 am

you said: “I’m not sure I ever was a very good plaything”

perhaps this is what’s keeping your mojo hiding around the corner. perhaps she needs a little talking to because i’m sure she was a very very bad little plaything…but in a good way.

By: nenasadije on January 4th, 2008
at 10:46 am

Maybe…but not so sure about that…

:)

By: aag on January 4th, 2008
at 11:15 am

Good or bad plaything. (Or maybe it’s just the weather!)

Playing these kind of sexual games requires some emotional taking care of too.

It’s hard to be a unicorn and hunted. There’s a lot that you have to consider and balance with the rest of your life. I know the strain that it’s put on a few friends at much, much lower levels.

Sex with other people… That leaves you at your most vulnerable. But desire is such a good thing. I think in time you’ll be ready to play again. At your own speed, and in your own way. Take the time you need.

*Hugs*

By: Devilbluedress on January 4th, 2008
at 12:17 pm

Enjoy the break, it’ll be back…

By: gusher on January 4th, 2008
at 1:44 pm

From the sounds of things, your experiences lately haven’t exactly been positive. It’s not really surprising that your mojo might go dormant. I think you need some time to recover from something like that. Anyone would.

By: A on January 4th, 2008
at 4:05 pm

Sounds like you’re just cautious for now. Not asexual. Now if you had said you didn’t use toys or played alone, I’d worry abit.

But given the recent happenings, the stress of the holiday season, I think you’re just being prudent and solidly cautious.

It’ll take time but you’ll get there. Definitely agree with “A” from Stick-and-Giggle on this.

By: Scintillio on January 4th, 2008
at 6:11 pm

Hi aag,

Read your mojo blog and really felt for you - it happens to us all, I had a serious dry spell a while back, but never fear if you’re anything like me, your mojo wont be gone for long! ;)

By: Modern Minx on January 4th, 2008
at 6:58 pm

Groucho: Why do you have so many children?
Female Contestant: Well, I love my husband very much.
Groucho: Hey, I enjoy a good cigar, but I take it out of my mouth once in a while.

no harm, no foul letting things percolate and shift around. mojo never goes forever, just regroups and makes excellent comebacks!

By: tongue-tied on January 4th, 2008
at 8:47 pm

You and many others will “get it back” at the end of the month when Mars goes direct again. It’s been retrograde since November 15 and its messing people energies up and causing delays and stalls.

By: Jocasta on January 5th, 2008
at 2:18 am