6th Nov, 2007

Consensus

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Our friends came to the almost unchallenged consensus that the breakup, though painful, was the very best thing for everyone involved.

We found this out as we compared notes, lying almost naked but not touching one night not long after things ended. We had some things to catch up on after several days of deathly silence, then several more days of brief, quiet messages passed back and forth electronically.

Our friends were right, we decided. Still almost naked, still not touching, we counted down the points. There were many, many good reasons why our relationship was not such a good idea. It would make perfect sense for us to stay broken up.

And yet there was one overwhelmingly compelling reason to stay together. We wanted to.

When I’m faced with a difficulty, I like to tease apart its various interwoven complexities. I want to be able to institute some new procedure, some new policy, that will prevent the problem in the future.

I wanted a new policy in place with my friend so that when disagreements like the one that broke us apart pop up again—and they will—we’ll have a plan. We discussed possibilities and settled on a few things that might help.

I hope when the time comes they will help.

When we’d talked as much as was necessary, he got to his knees. He leaned across me so as to reach his drink, because this kind of talk is thirsty work. As he drank, I laid my hand gently on his cock, the first time I’d done so in nearly two weeks.

He froze. Very, very softly I stroked along his increasing length, amazed that it grew so quickly with such a light touch.

He put down his drink and fumbled to push aside my panties. He found the spot that makes me come without fail. I came once, then again and again and again before pulling him down so that my lips could kiss where my hands had been.

It’s very unlikely that we’ll last forever. We make very little sense. But I’m hopeful that when the time comes again for us to leave, we’ll leave with love, and compassion, and not much anger.

And until then, whether it’s hours or decades from now, I plan on enjoying the time we have as much as I possibly can.

Responses

Plans are always good.
Glad to hear that all’s well again, as much as can be.

the tenderness with which you write about him really shows just how ready you are to make this work, for however long it lasts.
i say, go aag!

I’m not sure this is a good idea,
but as long as AAG is happy, I have nothing to say.

Sigh. Not in a good or bad way, just… sigh.

…….. well……. ok.

good relationships when they end.. don’t often end just like that.. quite often they end, and then start again… obviously you both wanted that… his response to your soft stroke tells me he was sooooo ready to respond and was waiting and hoping for your touch…

happy for you aag

AAG, there is no reason to explain anything to anyone, even and most importantly to yourself. Just have fun with what you’ve got, for as long as it lasts. You’ll land right side up. I don’t have any doubts.
XX

There we go … gently does it :o)

Whatever you do is fine by me, and most of your readers too.

Woohooo!

I’m pleased that its re-kindled, possibly in a slightly different way than before, but there’s a strength between you both…….. you’re drawn together…….

The beauty of it is that it doesn’t make sense. Why does it have to?

Enjoy your time, and have fun with him!

Can empathise completely. To have something that wonderful, it is a shame to throw it away just because it shouldnt work. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy.

Anything emotional is not meant to make sense. Enjoy each other…

Personally,,I couldnt be Happier, that you decided to take him back,,whatever your reasoning…
My advice is to enjoy the time you have with each other,,Anyone elses advice Be Damned…..

Breaking up is hard to do. And it sounds like you are going through the stages of knowing it might not work and yet being unable not to still be with each-other. Enjoy what sweetness you can, AAG, and still try to guard your heart.

I don’t believe in guarding my heart. It’s against my religion. Or something. :)

True definition of lovers… glad you could talk it out and start to work through things… sounds like good or bad you’ll be there for each other. :) Nice. :D

Relationships are so complicated…

Consensus always bring better communication. And that always brings people closer. And that’s a good thing. My heart is warm for your new phase.

‘… love, and compassion, and not much anger.’

what more can one hope for? best wishes.

said Gusher… “Relationships are so complicated…”

I wish they were *that* easy… LOL ;)

WTF?

It sounds like you’re going about this in the most mature and healthy way that two people who enjoy each other can. Lust (and possibly love?) isn’t logical, so it’s impossible to be logical, but as long as you realize it’s not perfect, and it’s not going to be forever, which it seems like you do, that’s all you *can* do.

I’ve gotten over the honeymoon stage with J, and realize that it won’t last forever. we’re in very different places in our lives. I can’t live my life seeing the person I love twice a month (or less)…but I love him, and it works…for now. So I deal with it because I want to be with him at this moment.

I think you’re handling it the best way you can.

I’m sure there are many good reasons to not stay together…but you’re right, wanting to stay together is really the only answer you need.

And I like that comment about guarding your heart being against your religion…or something…maybe I should join that sect, cause guarding it doesn’t always do much good. :-) Happy Tuesday!

I’ve gotten used to the idea that what’s going on on the site isn’t necessarily what’s going on in your life at the exact same time. You might be living a little or a lot ahead of our reading you. (But the babies are still babies right :) )

I hope you’re finding both peace and joy (and maybe some rest!) in the place you are.

i’ve always liked the idea that heartbreak is how you know you tried

you do what you gotta do babe and you share what you choose and otherwise just … take care of yourself…

but guard your heart? why would you do that? then you wouldn’t be able to FEEL

Love & relationships are not logical.
The heart wants what the hearts wants.

That’s just the way it is.

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