Comments on: First Month http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/ ~ videamus quid sit exilium. nempe loci commutatio.~ Thu, 22 Dec 2011 14:33:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Pixel Bailey http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5410 Pixel Bailey Tue, 09 Oct 2007 14:26:39 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5410 AAG, It was great to read this post. Having been a woman who decided to end a 10-year marriage for numerous reasons, I can completely understand how empowering it can be to depend 'only' on yourself and even though it can be overwhelming at times, YOU never let yourself down. It feels good, doesn't it. :) -Pixel AAG,

It was great to read this post. Having been a woman who decided to end a 10-year marriage for numerous reasons, I can completely understand how empowering it can be to depend ‘only’ on yourself and even though it can be overwhelming at times, YOU never let yourself down.

It feels good, doesn’t it. :)

-Pixel

]]> By: MrCleanWI http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5392 MrCleanWI Mon, 08 Oct 2007 14:05:23 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5392 I am in the process of a divorce myself and I know exactly how you feel except I am the one moving out but I am not taking my time with my move. I can't seem to move out of there fast enough and get away from her. Every time I am there she has to create some sort of drama so she can yell at me about some made up thing. It is nice to be at my new place of living and be able to work on what I want without the 10,000 questions of why I am doing it and why am I not doing things for her all the time. I am learning what it is like to be human again and learning who I AM for once in my life. Good luck with yours, hopefully in the end it all works out the way you want!! I am in the process of a divorce myself and I know exactly how you feel except I am the one moving out but I am not taking my time with my move. I can’t seem to move out of there fast enough and get away from her. Every time I am there she has to create some sort of drama so she can yell at me about some made up thing. It is nice to be at my new place of living and be able to work on what I want without the 10,000 questions of why I am doing it and why am I not doing things for her all the time. I am learning what it is like to be human again and learning who I AM for once in my life. Good luck with yours, hopefully in the end it all works out the way you want!!

]]> By: Clipper http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5368 Clipper Sat, 06 Oct 2007 12:46:19 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5368 I forgot to put in my first responce call him and give him a week to get it, if he doesnt pitch that crap. I forgot to put in my first responce call him and give him a week to get it, if he doesnt pitch that crap.

]]> By: George http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5357 George Sat, 06 Oct 2007 00:34:29 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5357 Applauding here. Having to do it all yourself can feel rewarding but it takes a toll on you. Plan a weekend break every month, sans les enfants and it will do you a world of good ... mentally, physocally and sexually I guess (LOL) Applauding here. Having to do it all yourself can feel rewarding but it takes a toll on you. Plan a weekend break every month, sans les enfants and it will do you a world of good … mentally, physocally and sexually I guess (LOL)

]]> By: Sailor http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5356 Sailor Fri, 05 Oct 2007 22:48:02 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5356 Good for you, AAG- enjoy the feelings, and congrats on passing a month milestone. Good for you, AAG- enjoy the feelings, and congrats on passing a month milestone.

]]> By: Darkneuro http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5355 Darkneuro Fri, 05 Oct 2007 22:36:24 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5355 You told yourself you'd have his stuff taken care of and out to the garage no later than the 1st... Did you tell him? If not and you want it out without having to do it yourself: Tell him "Your stuff has been sitting here since Xday. I'd like your stuff out of the house by the [insert date] (give him 10-15 days max. No longer). If it's not at the <i>very least</i> packed in boxes and out in the garage neatly (mark him out a space to use), I'm either going to absorb this stuff back into the household or throw it out or give it away or offer it to the gods as tribute or sell it at a garage sale." And then stick to it. We're having to do that with Sic_un's last roommate. You told yourself you’d have his stuff taken care of and out to the garage no later than the 1st… Did you tell him?

If not and you want it out without having to do it yourself:

Tell him “Your stuff has been sitting here since Xday. I’d like your stuff out of the house by the [insert date] (give him 10-15 days max. No longer). If it’s not at the very least packed in boxes and out in the garage neatly (mark him out a space to use), I’m either going to absorb this stuff back into the household or throw it out or give it away or offer it to the gods as tribute or sell it at a garage sale.”
And then stick to it. We’re having to do that with Sic_un’s last roommate.

]]> By: aag http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5353 aag Fri, 05 Oct 2007 19:42:24 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5353 <b> I suppose they could be...but the idea is that the real estate tax money should sit in my account earning interest instead of the mortgage company's account. Oh, I've got an overabundance of kidneys. I'm all about the kidneys. :) </b>

I suppose they could be…but the idea is that the real estate tax money should sit in my account earning interest instead of the mortgage company’s account.

Oh, I’ve got an overabundance of kidneys. I’m all about the kidneys. :)

]]> By: Clipper http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5352 Clipper Fri, 05 Oct 2007 19:33:17 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5352 I gotta say AAG your ex is was a real asshole it seems. Im a lazy fucker but shit I still ask and help when its requested. I gotta ask though why arent your realestate taxes not rolled into your mortgage? Sure your monthly payments go up but you arent paying multiple tax bills at once. We get city taxes from our main city and the lil minisuburb city we live in, then we get taxed for county taxes. Anyway congrats on your new life. I gotta say AAG your ex is was a real asshole it seems. Im a lazy fucker but shit I still ask and help when its requested.

I gotta ask though why arent your realestate taxes not rolled into your mortgage? Sure your monthly payments go up but you arent paying multiple tax bills at once. We get city taxes from our main city and the lil minisuburb city we live in, then we get taxed for county taxes.

Anyway congrats on your new life.

]]> By: 24Crayons http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5351 24Crayons Fri, 05 Oct 2007 17:45:48 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5351 Congratulations on getting through the first month in the black. If I can think of some sort of scheme in which to make money while not doing much of anything other than my daily routine, I'll fill you in! ;) Congratulations on getting through the first month in the black.

If I can think of some sort of scheme in which to make money while not doing much of anything other than my daily routine, I’ll fill you in! ;)

]]> By: hasarder http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/comment-page-1/#comment-5350 hasarder Fri, 05 Oct 2007 17:17:02 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/10/05/first-month/#comment-5350 Sell *some* of your kidneys? How many have you got? ;) Sell *some* of your kidneys? How many have you got? ;)

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