Comments on: Uncoupling http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/ ~ videamus quid sit exilium. nempe loci commutatio.~ Thu, 22 Dec 2011 14:33:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: darkpixie http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4172 darkpixie Thu, 23 Aug 2007 01:21:24 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4172 kids are always affected...and they are always thinking. i wish you the best of luck in this!! xoxo kids are always affected…and they are always thinking. i wish you the best of luck in this!!

xoxo

]]> By: minxxa http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4121 minxxa Wed, 22 Aug 2007 02:13:24 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4121 You seem to be doing everything you can to make your kids "understand", at least the important things-- that they will be loved, that they will be taken care of. I believe that you've proven your ability to not bad-mouth the ex... and that's the important part. Kids will figure things out themselves eventually anyway. My daughter was 8 and my son 5 when I escaped my ex. I never badmouthed my ex. And when at 9 and 10 she would ask why we couldn't all still live together, I just had to explain that the reasons were between her and her father, and that we both loved her but couldn't stay together. Now at 15, she has the same exact issues with her father that I did... which I find sad, but not unexpected. She loves her father, but she has no questions anymore as to why I left. Children are smart... and they will see reality no matter how much adults try to pretend differently. Sometimes I think they are smarter than we are!!! Long story short... a lot of love goes a long way... and you have a lot to give, and give it freely. That's all that matters in the end... You seem to be doing everything you can to make your kids “understand”, at least the important things– that they will be loved, that they will be taken care of. I believe that you’ve proven your ability to not bad-mouth the ex… and that’s the important part. Kids will figure things out themselves eventually anyway. My daughter was 8 and my son 5 when I escaped my ex. I never badmouthed my ex. And when at 9 and 10 she would ask why we couldn’t all still live together, I just had to explain that the reasons were between her and her father, and that we both loved her but couldn’t stay together. Now at 15, she has the same exact issues with her father that I did… which I find sad, but not unexpected. She loves her father, but she has no questions anymore as to why I left. Children are smart… and they will see reality no matter how much adults try to pretend differently. Sometimes I think they are smarter than we are!!!

Long story short… a lot of love goes a long way… and you have a lot to give, and give it freely. That’s all that matters in the end…

]]> By: Bad Bad Girl http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4091 Bad Bad Girl Tue, 21 Aug 2007 05:38:24 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4091 Ah what a good girl. Food, a home... tv? well- that's a necessity for a child. my thoughts are with them... Ah what a good girl. Food, a home… tv? well- that’s a necessity for a child. my thoughts are with them…

]]> By: Gadfly http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4085 Gadfly Tue, 21 Aug 2007 02:45:39 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4085 Gotta agree. Deeds mean more than talk. We're in your corner, baby. I know you'll keep it under control and functioning. That's what you do. You make it happen for your kids, and, usually for yourself as well. I've always been smitten by your strength. *giant hug and cunt tickle* ;-) Gotta agree. Deeds mean more than talk.

We’re in your corner, baby. I know you’ll keep it under control and functioning. That’s what you do. You make it happen for your kids, and, usually for yourself as well. I’ve always been smitten by your strength.

*giant hug and cunt tickle*

;-)

]]> By: Darkneuro http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4084 Darkneuro Tue, 21 Aug 2007 01:40:54 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4084 <i>I don’t know that there’s ever a time she’ll need to know more than the very basics.</i> Typically speaking, until she asks and is much older, or until <b>any</b> of them are much older, it's best to use the generic "We can't be married any more" statement. Even when she's 17 or 18, it may still be a little sticky, but she would understand by then it's private as well. At that age, they don't get privacy. I don’t know that there’s ever a time she’ll need to know more than the very basics.
Typically speaking, until she asks and is much older, or until any of them are much older, it’s best to use the generic “We can’t be married any more” statement. Even when she’s 17 or 18, it may still be a little sticky, but she would understand by then it’s private as well. At that age, they don’t get privacy.

]]> By: Kochanie http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4083 Kochanie Tue, 21 Aug 2007 00:36:05 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4083 <i>I depend on you IE hold-outs to let me know this stuff!</i> We're too busy reading to look at the sidebar. We make time for the important stuff. Not so much time for the extras. ;-) Wonderful post, aag. I depend on you IE hold-outs to let me know this stuff!

We’re too busy reading to look at the sidebar. We make time for the important stuff. Not so much time for the extras. ;-)

Wonderful post, aag.

]]> By: aag http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4078 aag Mon, 20 Aug 2007 20:09:27 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4078 <b> Dear Clipper, I go out. :) </b>

Dear Clipper,

I go out.

:)

]]> By: Clipper http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4077 Clipper Mon, 20 Aug 2007 16:43:04 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4077 I have a question AAG if you dont mind. How can you be having all this great sex with another person while your ex still lives with you. That seems like a really hard thing to manage. Anyways love the articles from you. You really sound like a great women outside of the bed too. I have a question AAG if you dont mind. How can you be having all this great sex with another person while your ex still lives with you. That seems like a really hard thing to manage.

Anyways love the articles from you. You really sound like a great women outside of the bed too.

]]> By: Haaaaaaa http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4074 Haaaaaaa Mon, 20 Aug 2007 16:11:51 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4074 Take a look at this: http://wordpress.org/support/topic/120912 Take a look at this:

http://wordpress.org/support/topic/120912

]]> By: aag http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/comment-page-1/#comment-4073 aag Mon, 20 Aug 2007 16:06:45 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/20/uncoupling/#comment-4073 <b> Really now. This thrills me! Anyone else having sidebar droppage? Or is the universe just fuckin' with me? </b>

Really now.

This thrills me!

Anyone else having sidebar droppage? Or is the universe just fuckin’ with me?

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