Comments on: Shampoo http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/ ~ videamus quid sit exilium. nempe loci commutatio.~ Thu, 22 Dec 2011 14:33:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: aag http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3772 aag Thu, 09 Aug 2007 14:04:50 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3772 <b> Yes. Yes I do want to know! Wait, don't I already know your specialties?? </b>

Yes. Yes I do want to know!

Wait, don’t I already know your specialties??

]]> By: THAT Guy http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3771 THAT Guy Thu, 09 Aug 2007 14:02:05 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3771 Washing hair is one of specialties,,,wanna know what the others are?? Washing hair is one of specialties,,,wanna know what the others are??

]]> By: Aphro http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3767 Aphro Thu, 09 Aug 2007 12:59:07 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3767 >>I’d like to believe that one person could heal another person in this sense. Unfortunately, I’m pretty sure that we have to heal ourselves… In one sense it's true that only we can heal ourselves, yet touch and love can both do wonders to get the ball rolling. While the atomistic model of the individual is often useful in this tough world, even atoms can vibrate in resonance with those nearby. There are energy fields in us and around us, and our choice of friends and lovers changes our energy, for better or worse. >>I’d like to believe that one person could heal another person in this sense. Unfortunately, I’m pretty sure that we have to heal ourselves…

In one sense it’s true that only we can heal ourselves, yet touch and love can both do wonders to get the ball rolling.

While the atomistic model of the individual is often useful in this tough world, even atoms can vibrate in resonance with those nearby. There are energy fields in us and around us, and our choice of friends and lovers changes our energy, for better or worse.

]]> By: Gadfly http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3753 Gadfly Wed, 08 Aug 2007 23:54:57 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3753 It's nice having a friend who is drawn to you -- INTO you. Just like it must have sucked to be married to someone who wasn't in the least. I'm glad you made the right decision. *warm hugs* It’s nice having a friend who is drawn to you — INTO you.

Just like it must have sucked to be married to someone who wasn’t in the least. I’m glad you made the right decision.

*warm hugs*

]]> By: Carrie http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3752 Carrie Wed, 08 Aug 2007 23:41:47 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3752 I have always needed touch as a part of a relationship. My ex didn't like to be touched or do any touching. He grew up with his father, who isn't touchy at all, and he has really sensitive skin. But I needed it, non sexual and sexual. He couldn't give it. So here I am with a guy who will lovingly touch me, hold me every chance he gets and it still makes me cry to this day. I have always needed touch as a part of a relationship. My ex didn’t like to be touched or do any touching. He grew up with his father, who isn’t touchy at all, and he has really sensitive skin. But I needed it, non sexual and sexual. He couldn’t give it. So here I am with a guy who will lovingly touch me, hold me every chance he gets and it still makes me cry to this day.

]]> By: Fred http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3751 Fred Wed, 08 Aug 2007 21:44:03 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3751 Yeah, I was painting with a wide brush. I think it's, as always, a matter of degree, and only at the extremes is it pathological. Yeah, I was painting with a wide brush.

I think it’s, as always, a matter of degree, and only at the extremes is it pathological.

]]> By: aag http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3750 aag Wed, 08 Aug 2007 21:17:37 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3750 <b> You know, I think some people just don't need as much touch as others do. I'd prefer not to think of it as pathological. How come everyone else knows how to include links in my comments and I don't? Dammit! :) </b>

You know, I think some people just don’t need as much touch as others do. I’d prefer not to think of it as pathological.

How come everyone else knows how to include links in my comments and I don’t?

Dammit!

:)

]]> By: Fred http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3749 Fred Wed, 08 Aug 2007 21:16:00 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3749 I think people who are afraid to be touched are afraid of intimacy. And people who are afraid of intimacy are afraid of loss. Loss is hard. For many people it's unbearable or at least almost unbearable. (Me included.) On the other hand, there's <strong><a href='http://aagblog.com/2007/08/03/last-call/' rel="nofollow">Last Call</a></strong>. I think people who are afraid to be touched are afraid of intimacy.

And people who are afraid of intimacy are afraid of loss.

Loss is hard. For many people it’s unbearable or at least almost unbearable. (Me included.)

On the other hand, there’s Last Call.

]]> By: darkpixie http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3748 darkpixie Wed, 08 Aug 2007 21:01:41 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3748 the differences are there....i dont even know what to say. *sigh* xoxo the differences are there….i dont even know what to say. *sigh*

xoxo

]]> By: april http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/comment-page-1/#comment-3745 april Wed, 08 Aug 2007 17:22:20 +0000 http://aagblog.com/2007/08/08/shampoo/#comment-3745 Some people understand the power of touch while others never seem to get it. Although, I often wonder at those who don't want to be touched...what are they afraid of? In those two vignettes, you show the differences in selfish vs. unselfish people. Some people understand the power of touch while others never seem to get it. Although, I often wonder at those who don’t want to be touched…what are they afraid of?

In those two vignettes, you show the differences in selfish vs. unselfish people.

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