Comments on: Confused Bottom

By: Quips & Chains Fetish Blog

Quips & Chains Fetish Blog — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 14:37:27 +0000

Ah the butt. Yes, there is the risk of a little reminder of our biology, but boy can it be good. It can be so good! And… yes, what’s good for the goose can be good for the gander. Every time I post a blog about strap on sex, or pegging, or anything prostate related, my numbers go through the roof. Guys want to try it, but are terrified of losing their masculinity. Stupid? Yes. Valid. Yes.

By: Mandy Muse

Mandy Muse — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 02:59:04 +0000

I’d not recommend the drinking or narcotic – it’s better to be sensitive to any pain that does happen, so that no damage occurs!

Dan Savage has a strong point of view that any guy who wants to do a girl in the ass had better be prepared to receive from a strap-on first :)

I’ve had little poos pop out, and Lover makes the excellent point that if you’re really into anal, you are generally prepared to deal with a bit of mess if it happens. I try to avoid foods that give me soft poo beforehand, and make sure I go before we get going, but hey, every now and then…but it’s totally worth it.

For the person who’s finding it painful – yeah, what AAG said! And sometimes some penises are better suited than others, too – this is a place where a less-than-huge or not-completely-hard cock can actually be a bonus as you’re getting started.

By: aag

aag — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 01:26:38 +0000

Lots of straight dudes love ass-play.

Too much drippiness? Use a condom.

By: Alexa

Alexa — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 01:16:55 +0000

If you know you want to have Greek sex, do an enema so you won’t have those brown cum drools in your panties. It also helps to push out as they push in…

I wonder how many men who love to stuff it in a female’s ars hole, would like to have it stuffed in theirs? Do straight guys have a clue what it feels like to have cum dripping out of your ass when you can’t control it for hours or days? Hum…

By: Mr & Mrs SW

Mr & Mrs SW — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 01:04:27 +0000

If you do it enough eventually a little poo will make its way to the surface. Question is Do you enjoy the experience enough to endure the down side. We are always making these kinds of decisions in life. Either that are go through life not enjoying very much.

By: George

George — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 23:18:07 +0000

I know there are lots of people who freak out when it comes to butt sex. BUT … if you take your time, use lots of lube, have confidence in your partner .. it is wonderful for both.

Thanks for posting this

By: darkpixie

darkpixie — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 22:34:20 +0000

i have had the same thoughts enter my mind…luckily they disappear just as quickly…if my partner is grossed out by it all…then he does not have to go there!!! although, i like that he does! :)

xoxo

By: The Girl With Secrets

The Girl With Secrets — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 21:46:30 +0000

I’m learning to relax about it. But I have that same fear. Being with someone you trust is the most important part!

By: aag

aag — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 21:28:54 +0000

I hesitate to recommend that people use anything during sex that might impair their judgment or enjoyment of the experience.

Well, if you are a kid you can poo on your mom…

:)

By: Ethan

Ethan — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 21:19:30 +0000

A few drinks, or other narcotic of choice, can really help things along. Once we got over that initial hurdle of actually trying it, it was smooth(ish) sailing. We’ve tinkered with each others butts a couple of times now and it gets easier to relax with each experience. Yeah, poo can pop out and sure, it’s stinky, but it’s not going to end the relationship. If you can’t poop on a lover, who can you poop on!