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You’ve hit on the reason I haven’t really ever explored much more than a few trial runs… there is always pain for me - but its slight.. its that feeling that freaks me RIGHT OUT.

That you ‘gush’ so much this way makes me think I need to further explore this… area, though I’m super paranoid… I’ve always been a ‘this is an exit only’ girl… hmmm.

Absolutely true

Wonderful.

Even the one time when there was an issue, I fucked her upturned ass and enjoyed every minute. And then she discretely skipped off to the loo

I had a bit of a spot on me Johnson, but who cares? It wipes off.

Hardly traumatizing

Yeah

A wee spot o’poo :o)

PS: I dig the big and the little tanned chix playing :o)

That’s why dark towels were invented.

Shit happens, eh?

If, in the worst case scenario, poo did rear its head, do you honestly think that whomever was there wouldn’t be understanding, what with having had your bottom full of him quite recently?

I’m with Gadfly. If I didn’t want to worry about poo, I’d avoid the spot that expels it.

I’ve actually had two buttsex-poo experience, and ironically enough, neither involved my bum. Poo showed up a little bit and said ‘Hello! I’m here! What’s all this then?’

Both times, I just continued on my merry way, and just gave thanks that I always glove up.

(I sometimes chew my cuticles, thus sometimes have little cuts on my fingures. Though ungloved ass fingering might be the best cure ever for nail biting.)

As for my own bum; I’m sure there’s a bit here or there, but for the most part, I don’t think about it. I just keep a roll of paper towels next to my bed, right beside the lube.

I worry about poo.

I never would have pegged you as Whiny the Poo, aag. ;-)

Now that I think of it, you should start a series entitled the Zen of Poo, which would include oracular profundidites such as:

She who meditates on shit will never enter Paradise.

As they say, poolessness is next to cleanliness.

So… if suffering from constipation, have anal sex??

This has been one of my fears. In doing some research on the subject, there are some things you can do in preparation that aren’t entirely unpleasant.

I also agree with Gadfly. If that’s something that really bothers you, stay out of there.

Viviane!
I spit my coffee all over my monitor!

Shit does happen and quite frankly I’ll take the possibility of a wee sopt of poo over any preparations that include warm water and latex.

Butt that’s just me!

I’ve only recently started playing toward the back door. Actually just yesterday I bought my first butt plug.

Haven’t used it yet but I’m certainly excited to.

I have to say that your insights and openess have encouraged me foray in to here-to-fore untested grounds. Thank you.

Alright - if this is a mind over matter thing, I have a week mind. The hubby and I have done it a few times, and one time felt amazing, but I just can’t seem to get past the “ouch - ouch - mother-fucking OUCH” part…any tips?

A few drinks, or other narcotic of choice, can really help things along. Once we got over that initial hurdle of actually trying it, it was smooth(ish) sailing. We’ve tinkered with each others butts a couple of times now and it gets easier to relax with each experience. Yeah, poo can pop out and sure, it’s stinky, but it’s not going to end the relationship. If you can’t poop on a lover, who can you poop on!

I’m learning to relax about it. But I have that same fear. Being with someone you trust is the most important part!

i have had the same thoughts enter my mind…luckily they disappear just as quickly…if my partner is grossed out by it all…then he does not have to go there!!! although, i like that he does! :)

xoxo

I know there are lots of people who freak out when it comes to butt sex. BUT … if you take your time, use lots of lube, have confidence in your partner .. it is wonderful for both.

Thanks for posting this

If you do it enough eventually a little poo will make its way to the surface. Question is Do you enjoy the experience enough to endure the down side. We are always making these kinds of decisions in life. Either that are go through life not enjoying very much.

If you know you want to have Greek sex, do an enema so you won’t have those brown cum drools in your panties. It also helps to push out as they push in…

I wonder how many men who love to stuff it in a female’s ars hole, would like to have it stuffed in theirs? Do straight guys have a clue what it feels like to have cum dripping out of your ass when you can’t control it for hours or days? Hum…

I’d not recommend the drinking or narcotic - it’s better to be sensitive to any pain that does happen, so that no damage occurs!

Dan Savage has a strong point of view that any guy who wants to do a girl in the ass had better be prepared to receive from a strap-on first :)

I’ve had little poos pop out, and Lover makes the excellent point that if you’re really into anal, you are generally prepared to deal with a bit of mess if it happens. I try to avoid foods that give me soft poo beforehand, and make sure I go before we get going, but hey, every now and then…but it’s totally worth it.

For the person who’s finding it painful - yeah, what AAG said! And sometimes some penises are better suited than others, too - this is a place where a less-than-huge or not-completely-hard cock can actually be a bonus as you’re getting started.

Ah the butt. Yes, there is the risk of a little reminder of our biology, but boy can it be good. It can be so good! And… yes, what’s good for the goose can be good for the gander. Every time I post a blog about strap on sex, or pegging, or anything prostate related, my numbers go through the roof. Guys want to try it, but are terrified of losing their masculinity. Stupid? Yes. Valid. Yes.