20th Jun, 2007

Deep Throat

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Thanks, Omnipotent Poohbah, for helping me bar the door to young’uns.

In my never-ending quest to keep learning until the day I die, I’ve set myself a new project.

I need to learn to deep-throat.

Now I have indeed deep-throated men before this happy juncture in my life, but certainly not every man. My deep-throating capabilities have been limited to men of average-to-small proportions, as it were. I’ve not yet been able to allow a longer, or girthier, or longer-and-girthier cock to slide down my throat.

This, I feel, is a black mark upon my record, especially as I am currently all wound up with a man who requires extra-large condoms–and not for the sake of vanity.

I’ve read instructions given by a master. I’ve memorized her words. I’ve taken them to bed with me. And my deep-throating partner in crime is a wonderful teacher.

He lies on his back, his head propped up by a folded pillow so that he can watch. His hands clench at his sides as I kneel between his legs and practice.

“I want to grab your hair and force you down on it,” he growls. I just smile to myself and keep working, knowing full well that he’d never actually force me.

I lock eyes with him as I slowly move down on his cock, taking it in as far as I can, which is only about 2″ short of all the way. Ah, those last 2″. I want to force my own head down to his body, but I gag long before that point.

The gag actually turns him on, the pervy man. He smiles at me and strokes my hair as I catch my breath. “I love to watch you suck my cock,” he tells me.

I have to laugh. “My eyes are watering so hard I’m almost crying. My nose is running. I’m drooling all over the place. And I just gagged on you again!”

He’s dead serious when he replies. “And you couldn’t be any sexier if you tried.”

Can you see why I think this man is amazing? Can you see why I want to give him my throat?

Again and again I try to take him all in. My throat is opened wide. I’ve got the porn-star spit flowing in abundance. I try it from the left, the right, the center, the top, the bottom. From each angle, there comes a point where my throat won’t open up any more; his cockhead rests against a fleshy wall and will not slide any further.

Could he simply be too big? I ask myself this question through a deep-throating-inspired mixture of tears, snot and drool. I refuse to accept that he is.

After even more practice (and a suggestion by me that he use a permanent marker to note my downward progression on his penis), his hands clench uncontrollably in the sheets and I see a look on his face that tells me practice time is over for now.

I may not have taken his entire cock down my throat, but I have succeeded in horning him up so much that he half kills me with the fucking. And that’s good enough progress for the moment.

The day after the last practice session, I was left with an odd sensation in the back of my throat. It wasn’t pain, not at all. It was an awareness, perhaps, of where his cock gently pushed against my throat and got stuck. In fact it feels as though his cock is still there.

I went through the day with his phantom cock in my throat. And I liked it very much.

Do we have any deep-throating tips to share? Experiences, good or not so good? Helpful hints? Encouragements? Do tell.

Responses

I’ve heard from more than one man that the gagging, the tearing eyes, the spit and drool out of the sides of my mouth, are all incredible turn-ons. Pervs indeed.

Personally, I really like it when my hair is clenched in a tight fist and my head is held in place, or moved up and down, even slightly. But, I’m a sucker (yuck, yuck) for a bit of force.

Eve

mmmmmmm.

i try to swallow when taking one all the way in.

yeah they like it when you gag.

i have hung my head over the edge of the bed and let him ease in that way. that seems to work as well.

your man sounds delicious. *wink*

I am most successful with my lover in the 69 position. But I guess your position depends on his shape :)

You never cease to amaze me, with your incessant need for learning new things- if, as “they” say, learnng something everyday is good for you, you must be the pinnacle of good health and a sharp mind!

I have no tips for you, but can attest that watching my cock being swallowed is certainly a turn-on, no matter how deep into her mouth it goes.

*whew* I’m glad it was good for you because it sure was for me. I’m walking funny today.

Her will not be pleased I can tell you!

Him

I haven’t had much in terms of really large men lately, but one of the things I enjoyed was lying on my back with my head over the edge of the bed. That way, he has a straighter way in and sometimes its easier to get past the gag reflex (which I don’t have much of anyways). Plus, I loved being fucked that way.

I like the NC17 banner, but my “adult” blog is marked as PG-13 and my clean one is NC-17. Go figure.

I wish my GF would even go there…. :-(

Hey, AAG, if you need any practice dummies…my IQ should be sufficently low!

Woah

I LIKE this guy.

He’s evil! He’s got the evil streak!

And yet he’s a calm, considerate, passionate lover.

I can SO appreciate that. This guy understands!

:) He’s cool.

And evil.

I like it like that.

Always learning is a good thing.

Plus, just letting you know the link to your mini vibe review is broken…

This link?

Hm.

http://janesguide.com/wpmu/toys/2007/06/18/lelo-nea-mini-vibrator/

AAG,
He sounds sweet indeed. Nothing makes me more comfortable than a man who encourages and appreciates me - in and out of bed.
I think you and he will continue to have great fun on your ‘learning’…

The position T’Sade and Gracie mention are better because the mouth/throat angle is changed. If you think about the position a sword swallower uses, it is always with the head tilted way back, for that reason.

speaking personally, I am one of those pervs that loves the gagging, spit, tears, etc.. and hair puling is a great part of it, at times.

I am damn proud to count myself among the biggest pervs on the planet…the gagging on my dick ranks right up there with things I love.

sex in public places is up there too if you want a full list you have my email.

I dont know much about deep throating tho sorry.

the wifey does love it tho when I grab handfulls of her hair and fuck her mouth like it was her pussy

I used to date a man with a very large and girthy penis and I found that deep throating is much easier when you are next to him, in almost a 69 position. His cock was sort of curved upwards, and this allowed that natural curvature to work to my advantage in this position by following the natural curve of my throat. I could go down on his full cock and he LOVED it! Plus, it gave him a wonderful view of me that he loved to look at. Maybe this position will work for you! Have fun!

I NEED that manual!

Good luck with this project, I think I should mirror this one!

Yep. That link. :-)

Needless to say, I will follow this thread with great interest!

Also, that link wouldn’t work for me.

Alas, I have never enjoyed the pleasure of being deep-throated. One of the hazards of being long and curvy I guess. I have to say, I’m not sure how I feel about the whole gagging thing–it straddles (heehee) the line between arousing and pitiful. But anytime a girl loves giving head and puts her all into it, I enjoy it. Good luck with your quest!

Long - n - curvy, eh?

Just the way I likes ‘em.

that link worked for me

for me it’s the 69 that works but i’ve only just started learning to deep throat…. see i read this post over at chelsea’s one day and was inspired so i asked my lover if i could practice and shock awe he said ‘of course’ and was completely stunned that ANY woman would WANT to suck dick.

what a tragedy that a lover as good as he had to make it into his thirties to find a woman who actually *likes* cock

with the gagging i find that the more i tease the gag reflex the less there it is [like wait til i sorta almost convulse and then draw out a little and then right back at it...] and there is NOTHING more satisfying than hearing ‘oh my god where are you putting it!’

that said, mine isn’t extra large.

that said again? i think we’re missing the ’space within’ that chelsea was referring to.

i’m sorry, i lied… but yesterday i managed to read that review and today the link she is a broken

I don’t know why y’all are having trouble with the Lelo Nea link. It’s working for me in both IE (gah!) and Firefox.

Go to Jane’s main page ( http://www.janesguide.com/frames.html ) and look for the link to the review in the right sidebar.

:)

mmm… I know your man appreciates that you are willing to try.. and try.. and try.. and drool and spit and try some more…

Sorry I can give no input, except to say I have never had a woman who would deep throat… so I have no experience.. and I am jealous of any guy who has had.

I did read one site that had extensive, detailed instructions on how to deep throat. I can’t find the link, but will continue looking for a little bit.

Haven’t read the comments, so someone might have already posted this one…
YOU flat on your back, head tossed back over the edge of the bed. He simply walks right in… Easiest way. Your gag reflex is subverted by gravity, believe it or not. All you have to do is remember to breathe. Feel free to use the hands to guide the length in, but breathe. It’s easier than going down on something.

it is so awesome that you have a training partner on your quest to deep throat…let alone someone as sensitive as he….keep practicing.

i know they like it when you gag…..tear….and drool….lol.

i have been told that porn stars use an anisthetic spray before they deep throat…cheaters :P

I have had that throat feeling before, many times. My friend who is a doctor said just to be careful. And darkneuro is exactly right. That is THE POSITION to be able to deepthroat.

Happy Practicing!

Not something I have much experience with, so no tips from me. But lots of encouragement! I can see where this would be very exciting for both participants. And I can understand why practice would help tame your natural reflexes.

The stuff the porn stars use is a type of benzocaine (numbing agent). Most “toy” stores and websites sell a cream that has the stuff in it. I like a product called Great Head from one of the in home party companies.

I would not consider using something that would numb my throat–or any other part of my body (ie Anal Eze).

:)

I find myself in the happy situation of also having a new lover to experiment with, and he’s also got a pretty big cock.
You’ll see by my screen name what I get into, and once inadvertnently while I was on my knees and hands tied behind my back and sucking him, I ended up deep throating him. (I had never done it) you kind of push yourself between his legs and put your head back, he can grab your head to guide you… it’s fun.
I’m reading all the lover entries, and feeling a thrill of recognition, I was recently fisted for the first time and had the same reaction. A woman after my own heart.

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